Where did he go….

Recently…I lost a very close relative…not just a relative…he was also my best friend…

Even now….almost a month later..I cannot fathom why he left the world so young….

He was always full of love …..and life…..always laughing, joking, singing……never a cross word did he say to anyone…his favourite words to anyone annoying or cursing him were….”enjoy your life and be happy…..”

Yesterday…I had a dream….in that dream…I saw him walking around in some town…don’t know where….walking amongst a crowd of other people….he looked lost….searching here and there….i recognised him in the dream….realised it was him….but didn’t go near him to ask what he was doing there….i just quietly acknowledged him….and then….i woke up!

What did this mean? Is it just because we always talk about him in the day time? Or is there some kind of message there? I say this because I am pretty damn sure…that he did not want to leave this world yet….aside of this dream, I have had a few more…and he always seems sad and miserable in them….

Why? I don’t know….

Another dream….

A few days ago, one of my best friends sadly passed away.

He was a gentleman, in the true sense of the word.

Two days later, I had a dream, in which I’m walking down some kind of a school or hospital…and behind me, is my friend, following behind me, arms by his side, head bowed down, not looking happy at all.

Was it real? Was it a message from him? I truly do not know. But I know it was very definitely him.


Coincidence? You tell me…


Last night, I had one of those damn dreams again!

Yep, those dreams in which you see something happen to you, or someone you know, but on waking, you forget all about it. Really useful, that is, eh?

So what happened? Ok; I’m driving back from some shopping trip or other, when I have a flash of inspiration. I decide to post a couple letters that I’ve been carrying with me, at the local post office.

So unable to find any parking space nearby, I decide to park my car on a no-parking zone, knowing that I will be out in a few minutes. Anyway, after doing my business in the post office, I come out and walking to the car, I notice the parking warden has already given me a damn ticket; it’s tucked lovingly behind the windscreen wiper, on the passenger side!

So that’s what happened in the dream. Now, knowing myself, I know through years of experience, that an alarming number of my dreams have a nasty habit of coming true the next day, or maybe a few days after. But, as always happens, I tend to forget what I dreamt.

And so, today, I had to drop the kids off at their friend’s house, after which I was driving home, when I passed the post office. And at that very instant, I remembered that I had some letters to post, but I couldn’t find any parking space. So I thought damn it, I’ll be out in a minute, let’s just park up right here….in the no-parking zone!

You’d think that I would’ve remembered the dream but no. The rest you can guess….yep, I walked out of the post office….and saw a parking ticket on my car…but listen to this…in the EXACT position as I dreamt!

Of course, I was fuming…but just then, I recalled the dream, but too late!

Now you tell me; was that a coincidence…or was the dream a warning?

Dreams..or reality….?

Do dreams create reality, or does reality create dreams?

A bit of both, I think.

Example….I dreamt my wife was in tears….next day, i call her from work….and she mentions her brother was also on the line earlier on, and is seriously ill and was in tears…so hearing him cry, she broke down as well…

Call it coincidence, but not in my experience. This has been happening all my life, so in my case, it’s a little more than coincidence!

What do you think?